作者: ??? on April 13, 1999 at 04:45:33:
We are all selfish. Fans want to see 周杰 more, and the girlfriend need to see him more. We all have "needs" and "wants".
Therefore, there is no need to blame anyone, especially the girlfriend.
For the FANS the girlfriend may be a unsensitive jerk, but that is becuase your selfishness demand it. Your selfishness wants 周杰 to stay longer. Your selfishness want 周杰 to forget his girlfriend, whom he loves. Just because 周杰 didn't fullfill your demands does not imply that he has changed in anyway. 周杰 is still 周杰. It is your selfishness that change your OWN view of 周杰.
For the girlfriend, 周杰 has been a JERK. Naturally, she wants to spend time with 周杰, but he cannot. He himself has admitted that he didn't spend enough time with her. It is conceivable that 周杰 is worry about her, and wish to spend more time with her at this critical persiod of their relationship. Perhaps the girlfriend picked the wrong time to break up the relationship, but it's their relationship. We have no right to criticize the girlfriend.
I hope that you, the fans, will see through your own selfishness.
P.S. Sorry, can only type in English becuase I don't have Chinese word processer.